Girl: All my friends are in relationships and all I get are shitty situations and I am angry because life dosen't give me what I want.
Me: Comparing yourself is the quickest route to suffering. You are unique. Many of your friends aren't like you, you have many gifts they don't. The more you stamp your foot because you want something life isn't giving, the more blind you are to what is actually available and the less chance you get anything close to what you want. For instance right now, there is an opportunity for connection here, we don't know what it brings or what happens inside of it but anyway here it is, the question is are you fully open to it? Free of all your ideas about what you want? or will you try to force your ideas into it, then it becomes...shitty. Its like this choice between trying to force others into what we want them to be or just loving them exactly as they are and celebrating what is, no matter how it looks. The stronger our attachments to outcome going into connection, the less space there is for genuine meeting.